Friday, January 11, 2019

Gender and Sexual Rights

       The Church of Jesus Christ leaders have emphasized the Family Proclamation which states that the family is the fundamental unit of society. This week, in my Family Advocacy class, we are learning about the many threats to the family and how the degradation of it can bring destruction to our society. There are threats seen and unseen. Threats seen include: Pornography, prostitution, abortion, fetal impairments (poor nutrition/drug-abuse of the mother), disease, misuse of media, child malnutrition, denying birth, promiscuity, and homogenization. 

 
   All unseen threats are ones that are affiliated with the adversary himself, also known as Lucifer. We, must ask the that the Lord would give us discernment to see those forces unseen in ourselves, others, etc. that are keeping hindering the full functionality of family unit. 


So what can we do about it now that we've seen this awful amongst ourselves?


     First, I am inspired by Captain Moroni's example in Alma 46. Captain Moroni recognized that the Nephites' sinful behavior had cause them to become weak as to their strength. As the Lamanites sought their destruction, he foresaw their their victory. Rather than cowering in fear, he knew that he could depend on the Lord to provide the power they needed to defend their freedom. So, he rent his coat and inscribed The Title of Liberty which stated, "In Memory of Our God, our religion, and freedom, and our peace, our wives, and our children" which he fastened to a pole and cried with a loud voice that all those who would covenant to keep the commandments would maintain their freedom upon the land which they beheld.


From this I learned that when we recognize such risks, the Lord calls each of us to be courageous advocates in the defending the truth.  


     Our voices can be heard by first understanding the threats to the family. Some of these threats might be in our own homes. As we become aware of these threats and change ourselves, the Lord will guide us to know what to do next. It would be wise to study the words of prophets and give strict heed to their words. We might also talk to others to broaden our perspectives. Next, we can learn what can be done through policy, community action, social media, and our own homes. We can join groups and other organizations around the area such as ones that might be affiliated with school boards. 


In America, we stand for freedom but what is the balance between that and what is actually good for us?


     This week our teacher Brother Rarick shared a document which Planned Parenthood is planning on sharing and teaching our children in our schools. It is called, "It's All One Curriculum." The following link describes the principles which they wish to instill in our children.  https://unitedfamilies.org/email-archives/training-your-child-to-be-a-gender-and-sexual-rights-activist/


Do know the consequences of legalizing prostitution and that abstinence is not necessary?


There are a lot of famous artists who sing about broken families and their father never being there. When you get down to the realization of it, we must face consequences to every decision we make. even though, those consequences may not be manifested until a later time, but of course it seems right in the moment. Would you rather get an A on your test and study? Or would you rather eat Cheetos and play video games and get an F? Sometimes, we take the risk of supposing that if we do something, the consequence will not happen to us. It might be considered pure luck! "If I speed through this yellow light it may not turn red and then I might get to work on time." Or "If I slow down at this yellow light, then I will not risk getting in a crash or a ticket which would further make me late for work." In our logical mind, we would never choose the worst consequence, but in reality sometimes, we do. If we do not think logically, acting on our emotions lead us to acting irrational. Parents or those who are wiser find themselves reminding teenagers to complete certain tasks because their prefrontal cortex is not fully developed. Luckily, as adults we have a Father in Heaven, who if we ask will lead us to make good decisions.


So instead of ending up in a state of failure and depression, wondering why this came to be, think logically. If you are wondering why hearts are failing in society and we are becoming a weak and depressed society, think logically! Would you rather see more crime rate, mental illness, pollution, complaining, loss of integrity, loss of loyalty, etc.? Or not having to worry about locking our doors at night?


Friday, December 28, 2018

Don't Take Life Seriously

I think that people may in general including myself take life and themselves too seriously. When this happens they get angry, upset, etc. No one is perfect in this world, including ourselves. It's really okay that things don't work out or life does not work out the way we want it to. Like for instance, after I was having the worst day, I was driving home and saw some truck driver pumping iron on the side of the highway and I could not help but be amazed and laugh, and it made my whole day. I think God places people in our lives to remind us of this fact.

Wednesday, September 5, 2018

Addiction

Myth buster...
Smoking cigarettes will not help you lose weight. Yes, smoking is an addiction and like any addiction will occupy your time, but it will not help you lose weight and if it has, then you are fooling yourself. Why? Because you can become addicted to anything, NORMAL. You do not have to sacrifice your health to a "supplement". Here's the solution. I believe that addiction is normal to some extent. I believe Heavenly Father put these strong feelings in us to enjoy life. But like any matter, Satan can distort that virtue. That is the only way we get good at something because we create endorphins in our successes. So instead of smoking, find something else to occupy your time and have it become an addiction. Especially Family History! It becomes an addiction, you just want to find more! Yes, we all need to "relax" sometimes, but trust me, sooner or later you will find that there are different (LASTING) joys to experience in life that you have never experienced before and you will not want to sell yourself short. Think long-term.

My addictions: reading the Book of Mormon, running, Family History, yoga, art....

Scary thoughts: Are you experiencing more trials in life related to feeling down about life or are you experiencing more trials pertaining to your growth such as learning a new language, christlike attribute, or instrument?

Play the game of Would You Rather with yourself. You'll find that you are sabotaging your life than you thought. Ex. Would you rather have a cigarette and be late for work or go to work on time and get a raise. If we think about the long-term and weigh the consequences of our decisions, I think we'll find that we'd rather choose the better way.

Sunday, September 2, 2018

Do Things You Have Never Done Before


Do things you have never done before to experience thoughts and feelings about yourself and others and life that you had not before.

Also, be the first person to make someone's day. You might have been the first person to ever give them a compliment, take them out to lunch, or made a difference in their life in some sort of way. Maybe you were the first person to talk to them all week.

Propaganda






Prayer has the capacity to touch millions of lives I believe it can be felt across the world. Don't underestimate your power when relying one the Lord's strength rather than the arm of flesh. In the bible, the people of Moses were complaining a lot. We complain a lot these days because we live in a world that is corroded will all manner of pollutions. We are a complaining people. Depression, anxiety, etc. is increasing. I really feel like if we all prayed that this world would be a better place, we would be amazed at how quickly this world would change. I really think people have an "emotion meter." There are so many things that may happen in a person life to make them depressed or angry. For example. After a loved one dies, or they are abused, they might become depressed. Then if let's say their room mate fails to clean the bathroom that might make them angry. Then someone cuts ahead of them at the grocery store. All in all, their head is down at the end of the day because no one fails to look at them or smile at them or say a kind compliment the whole day. Then they come home and their in a terrible mood. Now, lets compare that with a person that had all of these things happen to them, but one person in their day smiled at them or did a kind deed. That increases their happy monitor. I wonder if this would also decrease the likeliness of them treating their wife bad when they come home at night, or abusing someone, or some otherwise evil act. I think if, instead, we plan to "make someone's day" by showing them whose boss, we might show an act of kindness to truly make their day.




Saturday, March 31, 2018

Be sure to watch General Conference today!


Hey...what are you doing? Nothing? Watch General Conference today 10 am-12 pm and 2-4 pm, tomorrow 9:30am and 2pm. Yes, 8 hours of spiritual instruction and all about having a healthy family! Copy and paste link below into your browser...


Sunday, February 4, 2018

Prayer

Today, I was contemplating the power of prayer. I was reflecting on my life and how sometimes I wish I had things differently. I think how important it is to start each day with a prayer or maybe a specific activity so that then, you will look back on your life not regretting the things that you said or had not said, done or had not done.